{"id":4724,"date":"2024-01-06T18:28:39","date_gmt":"2024-01-06T17:28:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/?p=4724"},"modified":"2024-04-26T18:03:00","modified_gmt":"2024-04-26T16:03:00","slug":"deti-alkohol-drogy-a-velikonoce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/2024\/01\/06\/deti-alkohol-drogy-a-velikonoce\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u011bti, alkohol, drogy a Velikonoce"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"4724\" class=\"elementor elementor-4724\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0d59851 e-flex e-con-boxed wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no wpr-column-slider-no wpr-equal-height-no e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"0d59851\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-402208e elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"402208e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a6ffd4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9a6ffd4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong><em>V\u00fdchova p\u0159edstavuje n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd \u00fakol, kter\u00fd nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 zvl\u00e1dat bezchybn\u011b, naopak je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, abychom se pou\u010dovali z chyb a \u010derpali z nich podn\u011bty pro dal\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchovu.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><p>Velikono\u010dn\u00ed sv\u00e1tky jsou p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm v\u00fdznamn\u00fdm k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdm sv\u00e1tkem a sou\u010dasn\u011b kr\u00e1snou lidovou tradic\u00ed. P\u0159esto, \u017ee je n\u00e1\u0161 vztah k\u00a0t\u011bmto sv\u00e1tk\u016fm r\u016fzn\u00fd, projevujeme p\u00e9\u010di k\u00a0dom\u00e1c\u00edmu prost\u0159ed\u00ed, zkr\u00e1\u0161lujeme jej, ukl\u00edz\u00edme, chyst\u00e1me se na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvu bl\u00edzk\u00fdch. Nakupujeme dobroty, va\u0159\u00edme, pe\u010deme. Projevuje se na\u0161e typick\u00e1 pohostinnost, smysl pro tradice, nebo t\u0159eba jenom chu\u0165 p\u0159iv\u00edtat jaro a nastupuj\u00edc\u00ed teplo a slunce.<\/p><p>Na velikono\u010dn\u00ed pond\u011bl\u00ed sv\u00e1te\u010dn\u011b oble\u010den\u00e9 d\u011bti s\u00a0tat\u00ednky, pak chlapci a skoro chlapi chod\u00ed za poml\u00e1zkou, chod\u00ed po n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u00e1ch, p\u0159ej\u00ed, ver\u0161uj\u00ed a vypl\u00e1cej\u00ed. A dom\u00e1c\u00ed maj\u00ed radost, cht\u011bj\u00ed pohostit koledn\u00edky z\u00a0cel\u00e9ho srdce. Vaj\u00ed\u010dka va\u0159en\u00e1, \u010dokol\u00e1dov\u00e1, kol\u00e1\u010dky, chleb\u00ed\u010dky a co na pit\u00ed? Kapku v\u00edne\u010dka, n\u00e1prstek vaje\u010dn\u00e9ho ko\u0148\u00e1\u010dku, jen tro\u0161i\u010dku na chu\u0165, jenom pro tentokr\u00e1t. Pak pozd\u011bji potk\u00e1v\u00e1me tyto chlapce rozesm\u00e1t\u00e9, vr\u00e1voraj\u00edc\u00ed, na pokraji opilosti, nebo opil\u00e9.<\/p><p>Jist\u011b to tak to nikdo nemyslel, ale t\u00edmto to obvykle kon\u010d\u00ed. Div\u00edme se, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me si, to je hrozn\u00e9, nebo jin\u00ed se usm\u011bj\u00ed a vzpomenou si na svoje ml\u00e1d\u00ed, p\u0159ece se nic nestalo. Opravdu?<\/p><p>Nal\u00e9valo se d\u011btem a mladistv\u00fdm. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 jakou zpr\u00e1vu d\u00e1vaj\u00ed dosp\u011bl\u00ed d\u011btem, kdy\u017e poru\u0161uj\u00ed z\u00e1kon. Kam posunuli hranice, co se m\u016f\u017ee a co ne ve sv\u011btle sou\u010dasn\u00e9 doby, kdy ve\u0159ejn\u00e1 kontrola soused\u016f, zn\u00e1m\u00fdch u\u017e nem\u00e1 takov\u00fd z\u00e1sadn\u00ed v\u00fdznam. Dnes se rodi\u010de mus\u00ed spol\u00e9hat p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm na sebe, je to jejich zodpov\u011bdnost chr\u00e1nit svoje d\u011bti.<\/p><p><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd se klidn\u011b mohl nebo m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t:<\/strong><\/p><p>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh je o d\u00edvce, kterou jsem nazvala Zita (jm\u00e9no vybr\u00e1no \u010dist\u011b n\u00e1hodn\u011b). Bydl\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00a0dom\u011b na mal\u00e9 vesnici s\u00a0rodi\u010di, dv\u011bma mlad\u0161\u00edmi bratry, d\u011bdou a babi\u010dkou. Otec pracuje pro v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed firmu, \u010dasto je na slu\u017eebn\u00ed cest\u011b, n\u011bkdy i n\u011bkolik dn\u016f. M\u00e1ma pracuje t\u0159eba na n\u011bjak\u00e9m \u00fa\u0159ad\u011b a s v\u00fdchovou d\u011bt\u00ed j\u00ed pom\u00e1haj\u00ed rodi\u010de se kter\u00fdmi bydl\u00ed. Babi\u010dka je b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00e1 hospodyn\u011b, d\u011bda je po\u0159\u00e1d ve vinohrad\u011b nebo ve skl\u00edpku.V\u00edkendy tr\u00e1v\u00ed rodina spole\u010dn\u011b, pracuj\u00ed na zahrad\u011b, chod\u00ed do p\u0159\u00edrody, sportuj\u00ed. Te\u010f u\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inou bez sedmn\u00e1ctilet\u00e9 Zity. M\u00e1 svoje z\u00e1jmy, kamar\u00e1dy, ti j\u00ed rozum\u00ed podle n\u00ed v\u00edc ne\u017e rodi\u010de. Na z\u00e1kladce se neu\u010dila \u0161patn\u011b, m\u00e1ma cht\u011bla, aby \u0161la na obchodn\u00ed akademii, tam \u0161la, ale ne\u0161lo j\u00ed to, nejd\u0159\u00edv se sna\u017eila, pak postupn\u011b p\u0159estala chodit do \u0161koly a vy\u010d\u00edtala volbu rodi\u010d\u016fm. Cht\u011bla b\u00fdt kade\u0159nic\u00ed jako jej\u00ed kamar\u00e1dka. Zd\u00e1lo se, \u017ee to je dobr\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. S\u00a0kamar\u00e1dkou m\u011bly velk\u00e9 pl\u00e1ny a velk\u00e9 tajnosti. Ob\u010das u kamar\u00e1dky p\u0159esp\u00e1vala, zkou\u0161ely si nov\u00e9 \u00fa\u010desy. Doma se zav\u00edrala do sv\u00e9ho pokoje, brat\u0159i byli pro ni otravov\u00e9 a odm\u00edtala makat, kdy\u017e v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed kamar\u00e1di m\u016f\u017eou b\u00fdt venku. Zm\u011bnila styl oble\u010den\u00ed, h\u00e1dala se, nebo nemluvila. Uk\u00e1zalo se, \u017ee ve \u0161kole m\u00e1 velk\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, bylo j\u00ed to l\u00edto, slibovala, \u017ee se to zm\u011bn\u00ed. Omluvili to pubertou. Chv\u00edli to fungovalo. Po \u010dase byli rodi\u010de pozvan\u00ed do \u0161koly. Zita m\u00e1 neomluven\u00e9 hodiny, u\u010den\u00ed ji nezaj\u00edm\u00e1, jej\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed je podez\u0159el\u00e9. Rodi\u010de sl\u00edbili n\u00e1pravu, p\u0159ece je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby se Zita vyu\u010dila. Kdy\u017e se vr\u00e1tili dom\u016f, dcera doma nebyla. Na\u0161li ji u kamar\u00e1dky, byla opil\u00e1, necht\u011bla s\u00a0nimi j\u00edt dom\u016f. To u\u017e bylo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161. P\u0159i\u0161ly z\u00e1kazy a kontrola. Rodi\u010de chodili do pr\u00e1ce, kdy\u017e byli doma, tla\u010dili na ni. Babi\u010dka ut\u011b\u0161ovala Zitu a m\u011bla pro ni pochopen\u00ed, sna\u017eila se vyv\u00e1\u017eit tvrdost rodi\u010d\u016f. A tak se Zita nau\u010dila v tom chodit. Kdy\u017e rodi\u010de usnuli, ut\u00edkala ven. Kdy\u017e na to rodi\u010de p\u0159i\u0161li, byli vyd\u011b\u0161eni. Promluvili si s\u00a0n\u00ed a trochu to zm\u00edrnili, aby nemusela ut\u00edkat. P\u0159esto to nepomohlo, hledali ji \u010dast\u011bji a \u010dast\u011bji a krom\u011b toho, \u017ee b\u00fdvala opil\u00e1, za\u010dala kou\u0159it marihuanu. A tak by to mohlo pokra\u010dovat. M\u016f\u017ee to skon\u010dit r\u016fzn\u011b, v\u011bt\u0161inou to skon\u010d\u00ed \u0161patn\u011b. Takov\u00e9 a jin\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy vedou k\u00a0z\u00e1vislosti. Na alkoholu, drog\u00e1ch, automatech. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f jsou stovky, ka\u017ed\u00fd klient m\u00e1 ten sv\u016fj, v\u00a0tomto jsem pou\u017eila kousky p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f, kter\u00e9 mo\u017en\u00e1 zn\u00e1te i vy. V\u0161echny ale kon\u010d\u00ed podobn\u011b, rodi\u010de jsou bezmocn\u00ed, v\u00a0rodin\u011b je p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, bolesti, zran\u011bn\u00ed. Rodi\u010de si vy\u010d\u00edtaj\u00ed, co ud\u011blali ve v\u00fdchov\u011b \u0161patn\u011b.<\/p><p><em>Kdy\u017e m\u00e1me co do \u010din\u011bn\u00ed s\u00a0mlad\u00fdmi lidmi (ostatn\u011b, v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b star\u0161\u00edch to plat\u00ed tak\u00e9), nen\u00ed nic d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edho ne\u017e\u00a0<strong>trp\u011blivost<\/strong>. Chceme-li b\u00fdt n\u00e1pomocni, mus\u00edme po\u010dkat, a\u017e nastane vhodn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost. Mezit\u00edm m\u016f\u017eeme s\u00a0dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edmi pouze udr\u017eovat tak dobr\u00e9 vztahy, nakolik je to mo\u017en\u00e9, a shroma\u017e\u010fovat ve\u0161ker\u00e9 informace, je\u017e z\u00edsk\u00e1me. Tyto informace je\u00a0 pot\u0159eba zprost\u0159edkovat vhodn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, ne v\u00fd\u010ditkami a obvi\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm. Mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 se snadno st\u00e1hnou, proto\u017ee si velmi \u00fazkostliv\u011b chr\u00e1n\u00ed to, co naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed svou \u201enez\u00e1vislost\u00ed\u201c.<\/em><\/p><p><em>Autorita jako takov\u00e1 na mlad\u00e9 lidi ned\u011bl\u00e1 dojem. Dovol\u00e1v\u00e1me-li se j\u00ed, vede to sp\u00ed\u0161e k\u00a0je\u0161t\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmu neklidu a neochot\u011b poslouchat. Dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed u\u017e nen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 bezv\u00fdhradn\u011b d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje a poslouch\u00e1, by\u0165 t\u0159eba nejd\u0159\u00edv odmlouv\u00e1, ale c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee dosp\u011bl\u00ed to v\u011bd\u00ed v\u017edycky l\u00e9pe. Dokonce i v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b d\u00edt\u011bte je velmi u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 vysv\u011btlit, \u017ee mus\u00ed poslouchat, co se mu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, ne proto, \u017ee to tak t\u00e1ta \u010di m\u00e1ma \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, ale \u00a0\u017ee rodi\u010de maj\u00ed\u00a0<strong>povinnost<\/strong>\u00a0v\u011bd\u011bt to l\u00e9pe. Na dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho ud\u011bl\u00e1 dojem, poda\u0159\u00ed-li se n\u00e1m mu pomoci pochopit, \u017ee existuj\u00ed z\u00e1kony, z\u00a0nich\u017e vych\u00e1z\u00ed nutnost autority a p\u0159ed kter\u00fdmi se mus\u00ed sklonit i samotn\u00ed rodi\u010de. Co se t\u00fd\u010de autority sam\u00e9, \u00fakol v\u00fdchovy dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 sp\u00ed\u0161 na jej\u00edm udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed ne\u017e na jej\u00edm budov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/em><\/p><p><em>Nikdo nem\u016f\u017ee o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee porozum\u00ed my\u0161len\u00ed dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho jedince, a t\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b, \u017ee se mu poda\u0159\u00ed je ovlivnit, pokud si neuv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee\u00a0<strong>nejistota<\/strong>\u00a0je z\u00e1kladn\u00edm rysem tohoto \u017eivotn\u00edho obdob\u00ed. Charakteristick\u00e9 je nest\u00e1l\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je jim \u010dasto vyt\u00fdk\u00e1no. Ve skute\u010dnosti za n\u011b nemohou, p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm ne za nest\u00e1lost. Jedn\u00e1 se o nevyhnuteln\u00fd v\u00fdsledek stavu, v\u00a0n\u011bm\u017e se jejich mysl nach\u00e1z\u00ed.<\/em><\/p><p><strong>Mohou rodi\u010de ovlivnit to, jestli budou jejich d\u011bti p\u00edt alkohol a br\u00e1t drogy?<\/strong><\/p><p>T\u00fdmy zahrani\u010dn\u00edch odborn\u00edk\u016f prokazuj\u00ed, \u017ee rodi\u010de podstatn\u011b ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed to, zda budou jejich d\u011bti kou\u0159it, p\u00edt nebo zneu\u017e\u00edvat n\u00e1vykov\u00e9 l\u00e1tky. Jako zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 se uk\u00e1zaly n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed \u010dinitele:<\/p><p>\u2013 Dostate\u010dn\u011b siln\u00e1 vazba d\u00edt\u011bte na rodinu m\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e1 \u010dasem, kter\u00fd tr\u00e1v\u00ed rodi\u010de s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem.<\/p><p>\u2013 Jasn\u00e1 a d\u016fsledn\u011b prosazovan\u00e1 rodinn\u00e1 pravidla, p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00fd dohled a p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 prosazovan\u00ed k\u00e1zn\u011b.<\/p><p>\u2013 Schopnost konstruktivn\u011b \u0159e\u0161it rodinn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my.<\/p><p>Zjistilo se, \u017ee dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed ve v\u011bku 18 let, na kter\u00e9 rodi\u010de p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b nedohl\u00ed\u017eeli, m\u011bli 2x \u010dast\u011bji zku\u0161enost s\u00a0neleg\u00e1ln\u00edmi drogami. Zku\u0161enost s \u00a0neleg\u00e1ln\u00edmi drogami tak\u00e9 2x \u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch, kde se d\u016fsledn\u011b neprosazovala\u00a0 pravidla. U dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch ve\u00a0v\u011bku 15 let, s\u00a0nimi\u017e rodi\u010de tr\u00e1vili m\u00e1lo \u010dasu, byla zku\u0161enost s\u00a0neleg\u00e1ln\u00edmi drogami 3x \u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. V\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch, kde se neda\u0159ilo zvl\u00e1dat konflikty, se u d\u011bt\u00ed 2x \u010dast\u011bji vyskytovala zku\u0161enost s\u00a0neleg\u00e1ln\u00edmi drogami.<\/p><p><strong>Dobr\u00e9 rady pro rodi\u010de:<\/strong><\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0 Prevence probl\u00e9m\u016f p\u016fsoben\u00fdch alkoholem a drogami u d\u011bt\u00ed a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch v\u00a0rodin\u011b m\u00e1 smysl a je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 S\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem nebo dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edm je t\u0159eba tr\u00e1vit p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00fd \u010das pokud mo\u017eno ka\u017ed\u00fd den.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 Nau\u010dte se d\u00edt\u011bti naslouchat, sna\u017ete se porozum\u011bt tomu, co v\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 nejen slovy, ale i v\u00fdrazem tv\u00e1\u0159e nebo t\u00f3nem hlasu. Povzbuzujte d\u00edt\u011b, aby s\u00a0v\u00e1mi mluvilo, zkuste vyj\u00e1d\u0159it to, co v\u00e1m d\u00edt\u011b \u0159ekne, vlastn\u00edmi slovy, a zeptejte se ho, jestli to tak skute\u010dn\u011b myslelo.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 D\u00e1vejte pozor tak\u00e9 na vlastn\u00ed reakce, zejm\u00e9na na takov\u00e9, kter\u00e9 by si d\u00edt\u011b mohlo vykl\u00e1dat jako posm\u011bch nebo odm\u00edtnut\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 naopak v\u0159elost a respekt.<\/p><p>\u2022 Posilujte zdrav\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte, p\u0159i vhodn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti ho chvalte, u\u010dte ho zdrav\u00e9mu sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. To mu usnadn\u00ed odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed alkoholu a drog.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 Zd\u016frazn\u011bte d\u00edt\u011bti, \u017ee jste za n\u011bj\u00a0 pr\u00e1vn\u011b zodpov\u011bdn\u00ed. M\u00e1te pr\u00e1vo a povinnost kontrolovat, kde d\u00edt\u011b je, co d\u011bl\u00e1 a s k\u00fdm se st\u00fdk\u00e1.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 V\u0159elost je t\u0159eba spojit s\u00a0pevnost\u00ed a prosazov\u00e1n\u00edm rozumn\u00fdch pravidel, zejm\u00e9na co se t\u00fd\u010de nep\u0159ijatelnosti alkoholu a drog u d\u011bt\u00ed. Jestli\u017ee d\u00edt\u011b toto pravidlo poru\u0161\u00ed, m\u011blo by n\u00e9st p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 Bu\u010fte p\u0159ipraveni o drog\u00e1ch diskutovat, opat\u0159ete si pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 informace, abyste v\u011bd\u011bli v\u00edc ne\u017e va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 P\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b spolupracujte s\u00a0dal\u0161\u00edmi \u010dleny rodiny. I rozveden\u00ed rodi\u010de by p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b m\u011bli spolupracovat, dohodnout spole\u010dn\u00fd postup nebo se alespo\u0148 informovat, jinak by d\u00edt\u011b mohlo jejich rozporu zneu\u017e\u00edvat.<\/p><p>\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 Probl\u00e9my se vyskytuj\u00ed v\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9 rodin\u011b, ale dob\u0159e funguj\u00edc\u00ed rodiny um\u00ed probl\u00e9my \u0159e\u0161it. Pokud byste na probl\u00e9my v\u00a0rodin\u011b nesta\u010dili sami, obracejte se na odborn\u00edky, odborn\u00e9 za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed. pracuj\u00edc\u00ed v\u00a0drogov\u00e9 problematice jako je nap\u0159\u00edklad Krok v Kyjov\u011b, pedagogick\u00e9 a psychologick\u00e9 poradny, specializovan\u00e9 psychologick\u00e9 a psychiatrick\u00e9 ambulance a dal\u0161\u00ed.<\/p><p>V\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9 rodin\u011b je \u0161ance na zm\u011bnu. Je pot\u0159eba si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee nikdy nen\u00ed pozd\u011b, d\u00e1 se za\u010d\u00edt i mal\u00fdmi kroky. Nikdy nev\u00edme, jak velk\u00e1 zm\u011bna bude n\u00e1sledovat.<\/p><p><strong>Informace, kter\u00e9 byste m\u011bli v\u011bd\u011bt:<\/strong><\/p><p>Alkohol je pot\u0159eba pova\u017eovat za tvrdou, siln\u011b n\u00e1vykovou drogu. Jej\u00ed nebezpe\u010d\u00ed je o to v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee je v\u0161ude a pat\u0159\u00ed k\u00a0r\u016fzn\u00fdm ritu\u00e1l\u016fm(oslavy, sv\u00e1tky atd.).<\/p><p>Ro\u010dn\u00ed spot\u0159eba alkoholu v\u00a0\u010cR za posledn\u00edch 70 let vzrostla t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 trojn\u00e1sobn\u011b. Vypl\u00fdv\u00e1 to z\u00a0\u00fadaj\u016f \u010cesk\u00e9ho statistick\u00e9ho \u00fa\u0159adu. Z\u00e1visl\u00fdmi na alkoholu jsou v\u00a0\u010cesk\u00e9 republice des\u00edtky tis\u00edc lid\u00ed, \u201e probl\u00e9m\u201c s\u00a0alkoholem m\u00e1 dle statistik v\u00a0\u010cR v\u00edc ne\u017e ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dtvrt\u00fd mu\u017e a ka\u017ed\u00e1 des\u00e1t\u00e1 \u017eena.<\/p><p>Vedle nikotinu je u n\u00e1s alkohol \u201elegalizovanou\u201c drogou. D\u00e1 se koupit nebo sehnat prakticky kdykoli a kdekoli. Proto se nem\u016f\u017eeme divit, \u017ee po\u010det t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed ho konzumuj\u00ed, hroziv\u011b nar\u016fst\u00e1. Alkohol je v\u00a0\u010cech\u00e1ch drogou \u010d\u00edslo jedna. Po\u010det dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou v\u00a0d\u016fsledku otravy alkoholem hospitalizov\u00e1ni, se v uplynul\u00fdch letech mnohokr\u00e1t zn\u00e1sobil. Podle zastupuj\u00edc\u00edho prim\u00e1\u0159e odd\u011blen\u00ed l\u00e9\u010dby z\u00e1vislost\u00ed Apolin\u00e1\u0159 ve V\u0161eobecn\u00e9 fakultn\u00ed nemocnici v\u00a0Praze Du\u0161ana Rand\u00e1ka je v\u00a0sou\u010dasnosti alarmuj\u00edc\u00ed \u0161kodliv\u00e9 pit\u00ed alkoholu u velmi mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed, p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b d\u00edvek.<\/p><p><strong>Nastala zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed doba, kdy u ml\u00e1de\u017ee nen\u00ed outsiderem ten, kdo pije alkohol, ale ten, kdo abstinuje.<\/strong><\/p><p>V\u00a0dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed je rychl\u00fd rozvoj z\u00e1vislosti na alkoholu a drog\u00e1ch \u010di p\u0159echod z\u00a0alkoholu na jin\u00e9 drogy. Existuj\u00ed d\u016fkazy o d\u016fsledc\u00edch pit\u00ed alkoholu a jin\u00fdch drog na mozek dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch. Modern\u00ed vy\u0161et\u0159ovac\u00ed metody zjistily u 17-let\u00fdch dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch, kte\u0159\u00ed pili alkohol a m\u011bli kv\u016fli tomu probl\u00e9my, men\u0161\u00ed hippocampus, co\u017e je \u010d\u00e1st mozku d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b pro u\u010den\u00ed a pam\u011b\u0165. Podobn\u011b n\u00e1sledky kou\u0159en\u00ed marihuany.<\/p><p>B\u011bhem dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed doch\u00e1z\u00ed k\u00a0t\u011blesn\u00fdm i du\u0161evn\u00edm zm\u011bn\u00e1m a tak\u00e9 k\u00a0vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed nov\u00fdch s\u00edt\u00ed mozkov\u00fdch bun\u011bk. I jen m\u00edrn\u00e9 po\u0161kozen\u00ed pam\u011bti a schopnosti u\u010den\u00ed alkoholem nebo drogami vede k\u00a0hor\u0161\u00edm studijn\u00edm a pozd\u011bji pracovn\u00edm v\u00fdsledk\u016fm. Po\u0161kozen\u00ed pam\u011bti v\u00a0dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159etrv\u00e1vat i pozd\u011bji, kdy\u017e spot\u0159eba drog a alkoholu klesne.<\/p><p>M\u00e1te-li pocit, \u017ee v\u00e1m probl\u00e9m (nem\u00e1m na mysli pouze drogy ale v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my obecn\u011b) p\u0159er\u016fst\u00e1 p\u0159es hlavu, nev\u00e1hejte a nav\u0161tivte odborn\u00e9 pracovi\u0161t\u011b.\u00a0 V\u011bzte, \u017ee n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvou odborn\u00e9ho za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed se zcela jist\u011b nedegradujete na rodinu fe\u0165\u00e1ka. Naopak v\u00e1m bude pat\u0159it chv\u00e1la za to, \u017ee nejste z\u00a0t\u011bch, co um\u00ed \u201ev\u0161e vy\u0159e\u0161it\u201c a nikoho z\u00a0venku nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. V\u010dasn\u00e9 zah\u00e1jen\u00ed n\u00e1pravy mnohdy zabr\u00e1n\u00ed daleko v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm nep\u0159\u00edjemnostem.<\/p><p>Ob\u010dansk\u00e9 sdru\u017een\u00ed Krok na Agentu\u0159e pro ob\u010dany Za stadionem 1358 v\u00a0Kyjov\u011b poskytuje bezplatn\u011b slu\u017eby: Odborn\u00e9 poradenstv\u00ed tj. rodinn\u00e9 poradenstv\u00ed, pr\u00e1vn\u00ed poradenstv\u00ed, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed poradenstv\u00ed, ob\u010danskou poradnu a Soci\u00e1ln\u011b aktiviza\u010dn\u00ed slu\u017eby s nab\u00eddkou pro rodiny a jej\u00ed \u010dleny pro podporu rodinn\u00e9ho syst\u00e9mu, pomoc p\u0159i \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f. Kontakty: 518\u00a0324\u00a0557, 739\u00a0084 422<\/p><p>Ob\u010dansk\u00e9 sdru\u017een\u00ed Krok poskytuje poradenstv\u00ed v\u00a0problematice drog a drogov\u00fdch z\u00e1vislost\u00ed, l\u00e9\u010dbu z\u00e1vislost\u00ed v\u00a0Terapeutick\u00e9 komunit\u011b Krok na Komensk\u00e9ho ulici v\u00a0Kyjov\u011b, Program n\u00e1sledn\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de pro abstinuj\u00edc\u00ed z\u00e1visl\u00e9. Kontakty: 518\u00a0616\u00a0801, 732\u00a0200\u00a0106<\/p><p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Mgr.Hana \u010caml\u00edkov\u00e1<\/p><p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Ob\u010dansk\u00e9 sdru\u017een\u00ed Krok<\/p><p>Literatura: Alkohol a jin\u00e9 n\u00e1vykov\u00e9 l\u00e1tky u d\u011bt\u00ed, Karel Ne\u0161por.doc<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Drogy \u2013 ot\u00e1zky, odpovede, sk\u00fasenosti, Helmut H.Erb a Sylvia Schneiderov\u00e1<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 www.drogy.net\/ portal\/ pro-odborniky\/zpravy-a-vyskumy<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ctk.cz\/\">www.ctk.cz<\/a><\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.tedeum.cz\/1_2009\/vychova_dospivani_gerve_dela_tour_012009.htm\"><em>V\u00fdchova<\/em>\u00a0v dob\u011b\u00a0<em>dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed,<\/em>\u00a0Herv\u00e9 de la Tour<\/a><\/p><p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Drogy versus rodi\u010de aneb \u201eCo d\u011blat, kdy\u017e se to doma proval\u00ed?\u201c,David Rejlek<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V\u00fdchova p\u0159edstavuje n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd \u00fakol, kter\u00fd nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 zvl\u00e1dat bezchybn\u011b, naopak je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, abychom se pou\u010dovali z chyb a \u010derpali z nich podn\u011bty pro dal\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchovu. Velikono\u010dn\u00ed sv\u00e1tky jsou p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm v\u00fdznamn\u00fdm k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdm sv\u00e1tkem a sou\u010dasn\u011b kr\u00e1snou lidovou tradic\u00ed. P\u0159esto, \u017ee je n\u00e1\u0161 vztah k\u00a0t\u011bmto sv\u00e1tk\u016fm r\u016fzn\u00fd, projevujeme p\u00e9\u010di k\u00a0dom\u00e1c\u00edmu prost\u0159ed\u00ed, zkr\u00e1\u0161lujeme jej, ukl\u00edz\u00edme, chyst\u00e1me se na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvu bl\u00edzk\u00fdch. Nakupujeme dobroty, va\u0159\u00edme, pe\u010deme. Projevuje se na\u0161e typick\u00e1 pohostinnost, smysl pro tradice, nebo t\u0159eba jenom chu\u0165 p\u0159iv\u00edtat jaro a nastupuj\u00edc\u00ed teplo a slunce. Na velikono\u010dn\u00ed pond\u011bl\u00ed sv\u00e1te\u010dn\u011b oble\u010den\u00e9 d\u011bti s\u00a0tat\u00ednky, pak chlapci a skoro chlapi chod\u00ed za poml\u00e1zkou, chod\u00ed po n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u00e1ch, p\u0159ej\u00ed, ver\u0161uj\u00ed a vypl\u00e1cej\u00ed. A dom\u00e1c\u00ed maj\u00ed radost, cht\u011bj\u00ed pohostit koledn\u00edky z\u00a0cel\u00e9ho srdce. Vaj\u00ed\u010dka va\u0159en\u00e1, \u010dokol\u00e1dov\u00e1, kol\u00e1\u010dky, chleb\u00ed\u010dky a co na pit\u00ed? Kapku v\u00edne\u010dka, n\u00e1prstek vaje\u010dn\u00e9ho ko\u0148\u00e1\u010dku, jen tro\u0161i\u010dku na chu\u0165, jenom pro tentokr\u00e1t. Pak pozd\u011bji potk\u00e1v\u00e1me tyto chlapce rozesm\u00e1t\u00e9, vr\u00e1voraj\u00edc\u00ed, na pokraji opilosti, nebo opil\u00e9. Jist\u011b to tak to nikdo nemyslel, ale t\u00edmto to obvykle kon\u010d\u00ed. Div\u00edme se, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me si, to je hrozn\u00e9, nebo jin\u00ed se usm\u011bj\u00ed a vzpomenou si na svoje ml\u00e1d\u00ed, p\u0159ece se nic nestalo. Opravdu? Nal\u00e9valo se d\u011btem a mladistv\u00fdm. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 jakou zpr\u00e1vu d\u00e1vaj\u00ed dosp\u011bl\u00ed d\u011btem, kdy\u017e poru\u0161uj\u00ed z\u00e1kon. Kam posunuli hranice, co se m\u016f\u017ee a co ne ve sv\u011btle sou\u010dasn\u00e9 doby, kdy ve\u0159ejn\u00e1 kontrola soused\u016f, zn\u00e1m\u00fdch u\u017e nem\u00e1 takov\u00fd z\u00e1sadn\u00ed v\u00fdznam. Dnes se rodi\u010de mus\u00ed spol\u00e9hat p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm na sebe, je to jejich zodpov\u011bdnost chr\u00e1nit svoje d\u011bti. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd se klidn\u011b mohl nebo m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t: P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh je o d\u00edvce, kterou jsem nazvala Zita (jm\u00e9no vybr\u00e1no \u010dist\u011b n\u00e1hodn\u011b). Bydl\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad v\u00a0dom\u011b na mal\u00e9 vesnici s\u00a0rodi\u010di, dv\u011bma mlad\u0161\u00edmi bratry, d\u011bdou a babi\u010dkou. Otec pracuje pro v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed firmu, \u010dasto je na slu\u017eebn\u00ed cest\u011b, n\u011bkdy i n\u011bkolik dn\u016f. M\u00e1ma pracuje t\u0159eba na n\u011bjak\u00e9m \u00fa\u0159ad\u011b a s v\u00fdchovou d\u011bt\u00ed j\u00ed pom\u00e1haj\u00ed rodi\u010de se kter\u00fdmi bydl\u00ed. Babi\u010dka je b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00e1 hospodyn\u011b, d\u011bda je po\u0159\u00e1d ve vinohrad\u011b nebo ve skl\u00edpku.V\u00edkendy tr\u00e1v\u00ed rodina spole\u010dn\u011b, pracuj\u00ed na zahrad\u011b, chod\u00ed do p\u0159\u00edrody, sportuj\u00ed. Te\u010f u\u017e v\u011bt\u0161inou bez sedmn\u00e1ctilet\u00e9 Zity. M\u00e1 svoje z\u00e1jmy, kamar\u00e1dy, ti j\u00ed rozum\u00ed podle n\u00ed v\u00edc ne\u017e rodi\u010de. Na z\u00e1kladce se neu\u010dila \u0161patn\u011b, m\u00e1ma cht\u011bla, aby \u0161la na obchodn\u00ed akademii, tam \u0161la, ale ne\u0161lo j\u00ed to, nejd\u0159\u00edv se sna\u017eila, pak postupn\u011b p\u0159estala chodit do \u0161koly a vy\u010d\u00edtala volbu rodi\u010d\u016fm. Cht\u011bla b\u00fdt kade\u0159nic\u00ed jako jej\u00ed kamar\u00e1dka. Zd\u00e1lo se, \u017ee to je dobr\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. S\u00a0kamar\u00e1dkou m\u011bly velk\u00e9 pl\u00e1ny a velk\u00e9 tajnosti. Ob\u010das u kamar\u00e1dky p\u0159esp\u00e1vala, zkou\u0161ely si nov\u00e9 \u00fa\u010desy. Doma se zav\u00edrala do sv\u00e9ho pokoje, brat\u0159i byli pro ni otravov\u00e9 a odm\u00edtala makat, kdy\u017e v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed kamar\u00e1di m\u016f\u017eou b\u00fdt venku. Zm\u011bnila styl oble\u010den\u00ed, h\u00e1dala se, nebo nemluvila. Uk\u00e1zalo se, \u017ee ve \u0161kole m\u00e1 velk\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, bylo j\u00ed to l\u00edto, slibovala, \u017ee se to zm\u011bn\u00ed. Omluvili to pubertou. Chv\u00edli to fungovalo. Po \u010dase byli rodi\u010de pozvan\u00ed do \u0161koly. Zita m\u00e1 neomluven\u00e9 hodiny, u\u010den\u00ed ji nezaj\u00edm\u00e1, jej\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed je podez\u0159el\u00e9. Rodi\u010de sl\u00edbili n\u00e1pravu, p\u0159ece je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby se Zita vyu\u010dila. Kdy\u017e se vr\u00e1tili dom\u016f, dcera doma nebyla. Na\u0161li ji u kamar\u00e1dky, byla opil\u00e1, necht\u011bla s\u00a0nimi j\u00edt dom\u016f. To u\u017e bylo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161. P\u0159i\u0161ly z\u00e1kazy a kontrola. Rodi\u010de chodili do pr\u00e1ce, kdy\u017e byli doma, tla\u010dili na ni. Babi\u010dka ut\u011b\u0161ovala Zitu a m\u011bla pro ni pochopen\u00ed, sna\u017eila se vyv\u00e1\u017eit tvrdost rodi\u010d\u016f. A tak se Zita nau\u010dila v tom chodit. Kdy\u017e rodi\u010de usnuli, ut\u00edkala ven. Kdy\u017e na to rodi\u010de p\u0159i\u0161li, byli vyd\u011b\u0161eni. Promluvili si s\u00a0n\u00ed a trochu to zm\u00edrnili, aby nemusela ut\u00edkat. P\u0159esto to nepomohlo, hledali ji \u010dast\u011bji a \u010dast\u011bji a krom\u011b toho, \u017ee b\u00fdvala opil\u00e1, za\u010dala kou\u0159it marihuanu. A tak by to mohlo pokra\u010dovat. M\u016f\u017ee to skon\u010dit r\u016fzn\u011b, v\u011bt\u0161inou to skon\u010d\u00ed \u0161patn\u011b. Takov\u00e9 a jin\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy vedou k\u00a0z\u00e1vislosti. Na alkoholu, drog\u00e1ch, automatech. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f jsou stovky, ka\u017ed\u00fd klient m\u00e1 ten sv\u016fj, v\u00a0tomto jsem pou\u017eila kousky p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f, kter\u00e9 mo\u017en\u00e1 zn\u00e1te i vy. V\u0161echny ale kon\u010d\u00ed podobn\u011b, rodi\u010de jsou bezmocn\u00ed, v\u00a0rodin\u011b je p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, bolesti, zran\u011bn\u00ed. Rodi\u010de si vy\u010d\u00edtaj\u00ed, co ud\u011blali ve v\u00fdchov\u011b \u0161patn\u011b. Kdy\u017e m\u00e1me co do \u010din\u011bn\u00ed s\u00a0mlad\u00fdmi lidmi (ostatn\u011b, v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b star\u0161\u00edch to plat\u00ed tak\u00e9), nen\u00ed nic d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edho ne\u017e\u00a0trp\u011blivost. Chceme-li b\u00fdt n\u00e1pomocni, mus\u00edme po\u010dkat, a\u017e nastane vhodn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost. Mezit\u00edm m\u016f\u017eeme s\u00a0dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edmi pouze udr\u017eovat tak dobr\u00e9 vztahy, nakolik je to mo\u017en\u00e9, a shroma\u017e\u010fovat ve\u0161ker\u00e9 informace, je\u017e z\u00edsk\u00e1me. Tyto informace je\u00a0 pot\u0159eba zprost\u0159edkovat vhodn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, ne v\u00fd\u010ditkami a obvi\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm. Mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 se snadno st\u00e1hnou, proto\u017ee si velmi \u00fazkostliv\u011b chr\u00e1n\u00ed to, co naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed svou \u201enez\u00e1vislost\u00ed\u201c. Autorita jako takov\u00e1 na mlad\u00e9 lidi ned\u011bl\u00e1 dojem. Dovol\u00e1v\u00e1me-li se j\u00ed, vede to sp\u00ed\u0161e k\u00a0je\u0161t\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmu neklidu a neochot\u011b poslouchat. Dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed u\u017e nen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 bezv\u00fdhradn\u011b d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje a poslouch\u00e1, by\u0165 t\u0159eba nejd\u0159\u00edv odmlouv\u00e1, ale c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee dosp\u011bl\u00ed to v\u011bd\u00ed v\u017edycky l\u00e9pe. Dokonce i v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b d\u00edt\u011bte je velmi u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 vysv\u011btlit, \u017ee mus\u00ed poslouchat, co se mu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, ne proto, \u017ee to tak t\u00e1ta \u010di m\u00e1ma \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, ale \u00a0\u017ee rodi\u010de maj\u00ed\u00a0povinnost\u00a0v\u011bd\u011bt to l\u00e9pe. Na dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho ud\u011bl\u00e1 dojem, poda\u0159\u00ed-li se n\u00e1m mu pomoci pochopit, \u017ee existuj\u00ed z\u00e1kony, z\u00a0nich\u017e vych\u00e1z\u00ed nutnost autority a p\u0159ed kter\u00fdmi se mus\u00ed sklonit i samotn\u00ed rodi\u010de. Co se t\u00fd\u010de autority sam\u00e9, \u00fakol v\u00fdchovy dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 sp\u00ed\u0161 na jej\u00edm udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed ne\u017e na jej\u00edm budov\u00e1n\u00ed. Nikdo nem\u016f\u017ee o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee porozum\u00ed my\u0161len\u00ed dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edho jedince, a t\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b, \u017ee se mu poda\u0159\u00ed je ovlivnit, pokud si neuv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee\u00a0nejistota\u00a0je z\u00e1kladn\u00edm rysem tohoto \u017eivotn\u00edho obdob\u00ed. Charakteristick\u00e9 je nest\u00e1l\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je jim \u010dasto vyt\u00fdk\u00e1no. Ve skute\u010dnosti za n\u011b nemohou, p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm ne za nest\u00e1lost. Jedn\u00e1 se o nevyhnuteln\u00fd v\u00fdsledek stavu, v\u00a0n\u011bm\u017e se jejich mysl nach\u00e1z\u00ed. Mohou rodi\u010de ovlivnit to, jestli budou jejich d\u011bti p\u00edt alkohol a br\u00e1t drogy? T\u00fdmy zahrani\u010dn\u00edch odborn\u00edk\u016f prokazuj\u00ed, \u017ee rodi\u010de podstatn\u011b ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed to, zda budou jejich d\u011bti kou\u0159it, p\u00edt nebo zneu\u017e\u00edvat n\u00e1vykov\u00e9 l\u00e1tky. Jako zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 se uk\u00e1zaly n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed \u010dinitele: \u2013 Dostate\u010dn\u011b siln\u00e1 vazba d\u00edt\u011bte na rodinu m\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e1 \u010dasem, kter\u00fd tr\u00e1v\u00ed rodi\u010de s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem. \u2013 Jasn\u00e1 a d\u016fsledn\u011b prosazovan\u00e1 rodinn\u00e1 pravidla, p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00fd dohled a p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 prosazovan\u00ed k\u00e1zn\u011b. \u2013 Schopnost konstruktivn\u011b \u0159e\u0161it rodinn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Zjistilo se, \u017ee dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed ve v\u011bku 18 let, na kter\u00e9 rodi\u010de p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b nedohl\u00ed\u017eeli, m\u011bli 2x \u010dast\u011bji zku\u0161enost s\u00a0neleg\u00e1ln\u00edmi drogami. Zku\u0161enost s \u00a0neleg\u00e1ln\u00edmi drogami tak\u00e9 2x \u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch, kde se d\u016fsledn\u011b neprosazovala\u00a0 pravidla. U dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch ve\u00a0v\u011bku 15 let, s\u00a0nimi\u017e rodi\u010de tr\u00e1vili m\u00e1lo \u010dasu, byla zku\u0161enost s\u00a0neleg\u00e1ln\u00edmi drogami 3x \u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. V\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch, kde se neda\u0159ilo zvl\u00e1dat konflikty, se u d\u011bt\u00ed<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4724","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky-komunita"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4724","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4724"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4724\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4728,"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4724\/revisions\/4728"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4724"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4724"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krokkyjov.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4724"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}